Remember, she came to live with you, not the other way around.
I think of this advice on a daily basis. I think people put way too much emphasis on their children and I don't think it does the kids any good. Now, I am doing the stay at home mom thing but beside being good for everyone involved, it's the result of a financial decision too.
If you live for your children, what will you do in 18-20 years? Can you go cold turkey? Can you let them go?
I think that's what causes a lot of breakups. All of a sudden you don't have anyone to supervise any more, and you start supervising each other. Which gets really old. Happened to my parents.
ReplyDeleteThat's some wonderful wisdom. I'll file it away for future use! ICLW.
ReplyDeleteThat is how my parents lived. And, I didn't feel slighted at all. They have taught be to really embrace life, marriage and their individual accomplishment- all the while being great parents.
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